Relationship Is Gambling

I am so sorry my readers for my vanishing act of two days. Now, I am back again and with a very interesting package of thoughts. I am sure everyone in life has been into relationship; the count of how many times into relationship varies individually. To fall into relationship is very easy, you meet – a Date, and like each other (because both of them are at best of their boots), then starts gambling. Well, readers, gambling here I am not considering the financial terms like investment and returns. Man and a woman meet each other, both are so impressive at first meet, well not knowing dark secrets of each other, unaware of their behavior patterns, hurted in past, betrayed or possibility of different stories in life, still wanting to take the risk to be with each other after a meet, or may be few meets. They find a twinkle in each other’s eye, unending fascination, a tender touch of holding hands, a gentle smile on face, a voice of emotions and all your sensory organs, releasing chemicals in the brain and giving you signals to make you feel so euphoria. Suddenly what happened?  

The gloomy world after the date seems to be so exciting; life becomes so beautiful and meaningful? Oh, I am in relationship ‘Facebook Status’, talk to friends about relationship status, will be part of their conversation (NO more Single status), now you will be the part of the family day out. Your social circle transforms.

So, socially how women behave socially when she is into budding relationship. Women talking about how they met their partners and good qualities of their partners, husbands or boyfriends . We met first at the best Mexican, or Italian food place in the town.  In this universe I bet all women will have same opinion ‘The best man ever they have chosen in their lives.’ Don’t go too far , just take baby steps with me readers to think. Slow Down! This is budding relationship. About men, man to man talk in a barbeque party, talking about their woman as if they have conquered the world, so much of pride they take, how difficult it was to win her heart, and the best is what he found in her is understanding, caring and loving. In few meets and dates.. I am not sure ‘Readers’.  Well I am so touched readers, wow it sounds so perfect.  But his friends gave a wink, and asked him a question, “Ayee, are you sure bud, you didn’t check the measurement?” May be on first date his testosterones level was skyrocketing. Everyone (Chuckles).  Men don’t waste their time in talking; they believe more in action so they are ready to take risk as how far it goes. Men are spontaneous.

Time to gamble. Let’s give a chance in relationship. Like a Lotto, you invest and either you win or loose. Relationship also goes through stages, either it clicks or breaks. A real emotional investment, giving time to each other, trying to create moments, investing energy and effort of knowing each other, real check of each other patience and tolerance, basically our elasticity check, the most flexible elastic human we are, keep stretching. We try to relate and make a bond with each other. There are lot of aspects, phases of relationship which I don’t want to converse about it, it is a vast subject.

Our trained clever mind has taught us about ‘Love & Relationship’ which we have learnt from our surroundings, that we have to work on our relationship to keep peace and harmony (Sounds like writing for a blog on Treaty of Peace,anyways), two people of different upbringing, different culture, thoughts, likes and dislikes. It seems  as if task assigned to two people to accomplish a goal in life (short term goal or long term goal of peace and harmony and the outcome will be to be together). That depends on adjustment and sacrifice. That’s how we get into making it complicated, sometimes, intruding space (Did the space existed when making love?) ,nagging, bossy, take a break from each other, yes, to know better, it’s an ‘Emotional Check’.  Trust me, all of our hidden devilish qualities unveil and we experiment in our relationship.  So much Fun, Drama and Action. Ahh, the spice of life. So spicy people we are. 

Why it is not so simple?  You know ‘Why?’

We human don’t have the inherent character of being alone, especially men, we are highly evolved races of human who need to fulfill emotional needs and basic necessity of desires. We need to relate ourselves and the sense of belongingness. We can’t challenge nature how they have made us, so we love to fall into gambling everytime as we see a ray of hope 'Someday I will meet unconditional love'. 

Unconditional Love,ops,thousands thorns of rose plant pricking me like a needle , well soon I will pen down for my readers.