After few drinks with your friends or sitting on a couch
enjoying a movie, lying in a hammock, sometimes our nerve wires give us a
sensational feeling of missing a person. Even though you are in a crowd in a party,
with friends, family, still holding a drink in your hand, all of a sudden
everything becomes so still for you, your eyes stop blinking, you mumbling to
yourself, our friend sitting next to us seems to be a chatty, compulsory irritating talker whose words doesn’t reach to
ours ears. Our good mate is no more a good mate.
‘Why this is
happening to us? Am I a geek?’ Mind
speaks, ‘You missing the first electric connection of your life.’ Of course it
is unpredictable and complex.
In a chemical sense, your body is going to release specific
hormones and chemicals intrinsically when you are with that special someone and
when they are gone, your internal circuitry is changed. Biologically,
feels like pre-menstruation syndrome, sudden depression, anxiety and mood
swings.
What guys think?? Great she left I don’t have to clear my
browser history everyday nor I have to go out with her Uncle Ben and Aunt Emma.
Everyday can have the toilet seat up ,nor those suspicious eyes of her's staring at my phone ringing and nor her dog will irritate us in the
middle of the night.
How about girls?? Fantastic life after he left, no one now
to judge relationship according to my social media nor anyone to hide his
feelings even he is in relationship. What a relief now? No more mess at home, no
inflated male egos anymore.
Despite biological and chemical sense, we try to analyse and
still unable to withhold our feelings for the special loved one out of so many
of them. Moment of despair for us. Isn’t it? Uncontrollable yet controllable.
But we let that person let go off from our life because we
don’t find the relevance anymore to be with that person or maybe there is no
possible way of reconciliation. It’s the memories we make in our life with that
person when we are at high emotional level. It feels like a flash in front of our eyes and
imprison our mind and suddenly we release those memories ‘Electric Connection
Missing’.
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