Friday, August 17, 2018

Electric Connection Missing


After few drinks with your friends or sitting on a couch enjoying a movie, lying in a hammock, sometimes our nerve wires give us a sensational feeling of missing a person. Even though you are in a crowd in a party, with friends, family, still holding a drink in your hand, all of a sudden everything becomes so still for you, your eyes stop blinking, you mumbling to yourself, our friend sitting next to us seems to be a chatty, compulsory  irritating talker whose words doesn’t reach to ours ears. Our good mate is no more a good mate.

‘Why this is happening to us? Am I a geek?’  Mind speaks, ‘You missing the first electric connection of your life.’ Of course it is unpredictable and complex.

In a chemical sense, your body is going to release specific hormones and chemicals intrinsically when you are with that special someone and when they are gone, your internal circuitry is changed. Biologically, feels like pre-menstruation syndrome, sudden depression, anxiety and mood swings.

What guys think?? Great she left I don’t have to clear my browser history everyday nor I have to go out with her Uncle Ben and Aunt Emma. Everyday can have the toilet seat up ,nor those suspicious eyes of her's staring at my phone ringing and nor her dog will irritate us in the middle of the night.

How about girls?? Fantastic life after he left, no one now to judge relationship according to my social media nor anyone to hide his feelings even he is in relationship. What a relief now? No more mess at home, no inflated male egos anymore.

Despite biological and chemical sense, we try to analyse and still unable to withhold our feelings for the special loved one out of so many of them. Moment of despair for us. Isn’t it? Uncontrollable yet controllable.

But we let that person let go off from our life because we don’t find the relevance anymore to be with that person or maybe there is no possible way of reconciliation. It’s the memories we make in our life with that person when we are at high emotional level.  It feels like a flash in front of our eyes and imprison our mind and suddenly we release those memories ‘Electric Connection Missing’.  




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